This morning as I was preparing for Sunday School, I was reading over the passage of Ephesians 5:21 - 6:9. It is filled with guidance as to how we are to submit to one another, to have love & respect for each other, and to teach and train our children and to honor our parents. It's packed full of goodness and reminders of how we are to live. You know, I am NOT perfect! The last question was "chose one role and reflect on what is most difficult for you at this time in your life." Well, I totally love being a wife, a mother and a friend, a daughter, a sister and a fellow Bible study learner. :-) I love all my roles so much! But each of them definitely comes with its challenges. I have to admit that what I find most difficult at this stage in my life is the "attitudes" of teenagers and the selfishness of the human soul. It downright angers me at times and I know that too many times the frustration of that comes out in very impatient ways. I have no patience for it and I know I really need to work on it. I love my girls so much and I really enjoy the times that we have together. But when those hormones kick in and the selfishness and ``attitude`` shine forth too much towards each other, then my impatience shines through too much! In my footnotes in my Bible it says to ``care gently for the children even if they are disobedient and unpleasant.`` I had to chuckle at the word unpleasant cause that`s exactly what it is!! Very unpleasant...and they know it too...and I know it cause how I react can be very unpleasant too! They don`t like it either...but the key is to be continually working at it and confessing it and forgiving....over and over....and never giving up! :-)
So, just as it says throughout the verses ``as Christ submits to the church, so are we to each other....love each other as Christ loves the church....Christ sacrificed for the church....care for each other just as Christ cares for the body of Christ....bring up the children with instruction approved by the Lord...serve sincerely as you would serve Christ...work hard and enthusiastically as though you are working for God...do the will of God with all your heart....we all have the same Master in heaven who shows no favorites but loves all.``
Such great reminders for me this morning...and for you. It is not always easy to treat others right when they are being difficult and selfish and dripping with ``attitude``.....but how do I look at times to Christ....not good. So I know that I need to turn around and look at myself when I`m seeing difficulties in others...including my children.
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